LIFE COACHING

I never knew the important role a producer plays until I made my first feature. Daniel empowered me both as a director and a writer. I had a separate writer helping me but the entire process became inspiring when Daniel was involved in the process. He involved the other talents, the actors, the line producers, the designers, art director, and some members of the crew. 

There were many meetings but every one was focused, purposeful and whenever someone was no longer needed in a meeting, he or she was excused to get on with their work. The shoot was a blast in every sense of the word. Daniel was a presence and he made every take a worthy endeavor. After the shoot, from editing to release marketing, Daniel was a force to reckon with. He negotiated with the exhibitors fiercely, politely, whatever it took to ensure the best for the feature film. It was an experience to treasure and I look forward to another experience with Daniel. 

There was a time my youngest son was going through a strange phase. Both my husband and I could not sit him down, let alone talk to him. As he got more and more distant from his brothers and sister, as he came home later and later in the night, we saw less and less of him. It got to a point we had a family meeting and admitted to ourselves it was a problem and it was a crisis. When he became openly defiant we decided to get someone to talk to him. 

Should this person be the same age as him? Daniel was recommended. The first surprise was how Daniel bridged the age gap. Age was really just a number. Then Daniel turned on us. On our attitudes towards our children. The expectations we had were pressure points especially to our youngest son. We discovered he was bullied in school. And that he was a bully himself. The latter was a shock to us. Daniel made us see it was a form of self defense for him. 

We are happy to report that he is now studying overseas and by all accounts he is doing well. He stays in close touch with us, and we are happy to know he also stays in close touch with Daniel.

Everytime I am back in Singapore, I will set aside time to meet Daniel. I am a musician who ventured to China, Beijing to be exact. Before going, I spoke to many people. Only one person, not even my parents who told me they would support me in whatever I do, told me to plunk the courage to go forth. I am now based in Beijing. Being out of Singapore as a musician, my world, both professional and personal, opened up. In ways only experiencing it can attest to the right decision I made to go overseas. 

Recently I went on stage to share my experience. I asked Daniel to say something on a video which I played while relating my story. I am also married. My parents came to meet with my in-laws. They are very happy for me. Once in a while, I will look around me and feel blessed. I have worked hard. I thank the people who helped me get where I am today. On the top of this list is Daniel. He always says it is all my hard work. It is. But it started with a window of opportunity. And having someone like Daniel push me to embrace it. Thank you Daniel.